I had been longing for this shimmering mirage that seems within touch but not. Over years, I was smug about being a perfectionist on most things. I once demanded myself to always dress perfectly, speak assertively at work, stay poised in any situation, master all specialties related to my career and etc. As you already…

I know a number of people who travel a lot, read a lot, and well educated, however mediocre. And there are quite a few who think superbly, I feel congenial and enlightened every time chatting with them. In my more native and vulnerable years, I wondered why. The answer turns out fairly simple: What it…